If you’re wondering whether or not your ex will come back, here are some signs to look for that may indicate they will.
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Introduction
After a break-up, it’s only natural to want your ex back. After all, you probably still have strong feelings for them. Fortunately, there are a few signs that suggest your ex might be open to reconciling.
1. They keep up with your life.
If your ex is still interested in you, they will want to know what’s going on in your life. This means they will keep up with you on social media and ask mutual friends about you. If they are trying to stay updated on your life, it’s a good sign they eventually want to get back together.
2. They reach out to you often.
If your ex is constantly texting or calling you, it’s a sign they miss you and want to talk to you. They might not outright say they want to get back together, but their actions indicate they are not over you just yet.
3. They open up about their feelings.
If your ex is sharing their feelings with you, it means they trust you and feel comfortable talking to you about personal things. This is a good sign they eventually want to reconcile and have a serious relationship with you again.
4. They make an effort to see you in person.
If your ex goes out of their way to see you or spend time with you, it means they still have strong feelings for you and want to be around you as much as possible. Whether it’s coffee dates or casual hangouts, if they’re making an effort to see you, it’s a good sign for the future of your relationship.
They keep up with your life
If your ex goes out of their way to keep up with your life, it’s a sign they will eventually come back. They may do this by liking all your social media posts, or texting you about something you did that they saw on Snapchat. If your ex is interested in what’s going on in your life, it’s a good sign they want to be a part of it again.
They express interest in your new relationship
Your ex can’t help but feel some level of interest or excitement when they see that you’ve moved on and found someone new. If they contact you to ask how your new relationship is going, it’s a clear sign that they still think about you and want to know what’s going on in your life. They may even be hoping that your new relationship won’t last so that they can eventually get back together with you.
They try to make you jealous
One of the most common signs that your ex will come back is when they start to make you jealous. This might manifest itself in a number of ways, such as:
-Trying to make you feel jealous by flirting with other people in front of you
-Talking about other people they’re interested in
-Posting images on social media of them with other people
-Purposefully not responding to your texts or calls
If your ex is trying to make you jealous, it’s a clear sign that they still have feelings for you and are hoping to reignite the spark between you.
They check in on you
They check in on you
Your ex checking in on you is a clear sign they are interested in your life and what you are doing, even if they don’t want to admit it. They want to know if you are dating someone else, what you are up to and how you are doing. If your ex goes out of their way to ask about your life, it’s a good sign they eventually want to get back together.
They reach out to you
Perhaps the most obvious sign that your ex still has feelings for you is if they reach out to you. If they text, call, or message you regularly (even if it’s just to ask for something), then there’s a good chance they still have strong feelings for you.
Other signs that your ex may be trying to stay in contact with you are more subtle. For example, they might “accidentally” like one of your Instagram posts or continue to follow you on social media. If they’re doing things like this, it’s likely because they want to stay connected and keep tabs on you.
They talk about you to mutual friends
If you’re on speaking terms with your ex and they happen to bring you up in conversation with mutual friends, it’s a good sign they miss having you in their life. If they go out of their way to find out how you’re doing from friends, it means they care and want to know what’s going on with you even if they’re not ready to speak to you directly.
They post about you on social media
If your ex is still posting about you on social media, it’s a good sign they might want you back. Of course, some people just can’t resist being passive-aggressive on social media and will post stuff to make you jealous or intentionally hurt your feelings. But if they’re posting happy memories of the two of you or msg-ing you privately to ask how you’re doing, it’s a pretty good indicator they still care about you and might want to get back together.
Conclusion
While it’s impossible to know for sure if your ex will come back, there are some signs that indicate it’s likely. If you keep in mind that relationships often end for a reason, and that people usually don’t change overnight, you can increase the chances of a successful reunion. Be patient, be understanding, and be prepared to compromise if you want your relationship to work the second time around.